Published2 hours agoShareclose panelShare pageCopy linkAbout sharingBy Áine McGlincheyBBC News NIA young Londonderry man has started documenting his experience of living with a stoma on social media in a bid to bust myths and tackle stigma.Stephen Blakely became unwell in the summer of 2022, bleeding when going to the toilet and suffering severe pain.That year he underwent an ileostomy and now uses a stoma bag to collect waste products. Now he hopes his TikTok videos will help those with similar symptoms to overcome any fear of getting help.”If you are going through pain or bleeding go and get checked out, it literally takes five minutes and could save your life,” the 24-year-old told BBC Radio Foyle’s North West Today programme.”There’s nothing a doctor or nurse hasn’t seen before. Yours isn’t the first backside they have seen.”Stephen has ulcerative colitis, a condition where the colon and rectum become inflamed.”I was going to the toilet 10 to 12 times a day at that time. I was in excruciating pain constantly,” he said.The ileostomy means he now lives with a stoma – an opening on the abdomen which connects to the digestive or urinary system and allows waste to be diverted out of the body and into a bag.”It doesn’t have to be a bag for life, it can be a bag for living,” he said.’I didn’t know anyone else with a bag’Stephen, who had worked as a carer, said he was active and healthy before he became sick.But when he became unwell and underwent surgery things changed.When he left hospital, he was visited regularly by specialist nurses.But as those visits became less frequent he started to feel more isolated and alone.Image source, Getty Images”You are left dealing with it, struggling on your own, you have no one else that can understand what you are going through – I didn’t know anyone with a bag when I got it,” he said.He said he went into “a hole” for two years while he tried to come to terms with how life had changed.Things are better now. He still struggles at times, but he’s socialising again, going out more often, and he’s started posting videos on TikTok.”For me, whenever I got a stoma bag I was terrified of getting it. You always hear the myths and the rumours, there are plenty of them,” he said.A stoma bag ‘will give you your life back’Rachel Jury on living with two stoma bagsOne caused him more anxiety than any other. “You hear all the rumours, people thinking you are going to smell, that’s a terrifying thing to go through.”That was my most terrifying fear. I lay awake about that for days at a time, that I would go outside and people would think: ‘There’s an odour or smell coming off him.'”That’s never happened me once with a stoma bag – it’s very important that I get that across”.He hopes his social media content will help others come to terms with life with a stoma and encourage anyone who is unwell to get help.”Since I made the TikTok account I have had people reaching out and contacting me. There’s more people than you would know with a stoma bag,” Stephen said.More on this storyA stoma bag ‘will give you your life back’Published19 April 2022Police officer given ‘armour’ for stoma bagPublished4 December 2020″If it wasn’t for my bag, I would not be here today”Published21 June 2020